They aren't that fragile. I learned on a 1988 Chev Corsica with 300,000+ KM's on the clock...sold the car with 389,000KM's and to this day it still runs and shifts strong. Even a seasoned pro grinds the gear with a mis-shift here and there...it's okay. I say if after a week of solid driving you don't understand how to operate the vehicle, get someone who knows how to show you.