ABS is just par for the course up here so that's probably why some didn't mention it. 
As far as dealer options go I have the:
Non-Smokers Ashtray (complete joke, if you get it, make sure they pay for it).
Cargo Net (Whether for sedan or hatch it's worth the money)
Wheel Locks (Not entirely sure long run how helpful they are but for $30 or so it's cheap insurance if you will).
I don't own one in this car but the auto diming mirror is definitely really great.
As far as dealer options go I have the:
Non-Smokers Ashtray (complete joke, if you get it, make sure they pay for it).
Cargo Net (Whether for sedan or hatch it's worth the money)
Wheel Locks (Not entirely sure long run how helpful they are but for $30 or so it's cheap insurance if you will).
I don't own one in this car but the auto diming mirror is definitely really great.